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Liberal, pro-choice, pro-marriage equality, secular, outspoken feminist.

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Remember that time the U.S. shot down an Iranian civilian airliner over Iranian airspace, killing all 290 on board, including 66 children, and then refused to apologize for doing it?

"I will never apologize for the United States. I don’t care what the facts are. I’m not an apologize-for-America kind of guy." — Vice President (and then-presidential candidate) George H.W. Bush, commenting on the downed airliner, 8/2/1988

That quote makes me sick.

This happened in 1988 while Ronald Reagan was president. Just another in a long list of awful things that Reagan was responsible for.

You want to arm me? Good. Then arm me with a school psychologist at my school who has time to do more than test and sit in meetings about testing.

Arm me with enough counselors so we can build skills to prevent violence, have meaningful discussions with students about their future and not merely frantically adjust student schedules like a Jenga game.

Arm me with social workers who can thoughtfully attend to a student’s and her family’s needs so I. Can. Teach.

Arm me with enough school nurses so that they are accessible to every child and can work as a team with me rather than operate their offices as de facto urgent care centers.

Arm me with more days on the calendar for teaching and learning and fewer days for standardized testing.

Arm me with class sizes that allow my colleagues and I to know both our students and their families well.

Arm my colleagues and I with the time it takes to improve together and the time it takes to give great feedback to students about their work and progress.

Until you arm me to the hilt with what it will take to meet the needs of an increasingly vulnerable student population, I respectfully request you keep your opinions on schools and our safety to yourself, NRA. Knock it off.

Mary Cathryn Ricker, President of the St. Paul Federation of Teachers.  (via reverberatingowl)

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This is it. This is pretty much the pentacle of male privilege in the U.S. When a husband whole heartedly believes that he is a victim to unfair treatment by his wife because she denied him sex 26 times in a month.  

When a man think his pleasures is more important than a women NOT WANTING TO HAVE SEX and since they are married he has every right to her body and by denying him access to her body she is denying him said right. 

He thinks her “excuses” for having sex are also unreasonable. And what are some of those “excuses”?

-She was too tired to have sex.

-She was sick.

-She was too drunk.

-She felt tender (in vaginal region) after having sex the other day.

-They didn’t have enough time because they had somewhere to be. (Which means he was fully prepared to have enough time to get himself off INSIDE his wife while knowing they wouldn’t have enough time for her pleasure)

These are all unreasonable “excuses”

 I saw the Reddit thread, and most people were siding with him because she was committing the unacceptable crime of not having sex with him, and even among those who were more sympathetic were starting with ”he did it in an immature way…BUT” and it’s just so depressing how much people hate women that are not ”fulfilling their purpose” of being fucked by men. 

The comments on the Buzzfeed link are full of women defending the guy.

It makes me so fucking sick.

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why test on animals when there are prisons full of rapists

because the prisons aren’t actually full of rapists

the rapists run free and the prisons are full of people charged with weed possession

and we shouldn’t do experiments on human beings without their consent no matter who they are, because this already happened and still happens to marginalised groups in and outside of prison and frankly it’s terrifying that the people responsible for this were able to do that and mostly got away with it, I know education on ableism, racism, history and ethics is pretty bad worldwide right now but come on

People the whole point of being against animal testing (humans are animals????) is because it’s unethical. Animals should be respected and we shouldn’t violate their inability to consent.

that doesn’t fucking mean you start doing the same unethical shit on thousands of imprisoned people, especially when most of them are working class people of colour imprisoned for minor offences, like come the fuck on. I get what OP is saying here but reality is much more complex than we like to think.

Don’t test on animals. Don’t test on humans (no matter how gross and horrible they are). Remember intersectionality and capitalism and the prison-industrial complex.

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We have one kitten left at work and he does not like to be ignored! He demands you pay attention to his cute!

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not being at comic con like 


not being at comic con like 

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So there is this quiz that one of my conservative family members posted on Facebook titled, “How Open-Minded Are You?”

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As promised, here are some pictures of Lyalya’s first walk outside! Look at the bushy little squirrel tail :D the sandpit was her favorite spot! She was extremely excited and threw sand all over the place

this is a fucking squirrel. this is a fucking squirrel with a cat’s head. who is responsible for this

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Someone just fucking drew Gandalf in a suede chair, nbd.

or someone has the weirdest ass ever

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my followers are awesome


my followers are awesome

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Look at Fifty Shades Of Grey's knot.


Now look at my knot.


Now back at FSoG.  Now back at me.

This is the knot your knot could look like if you bothered to ask actual BDSM players, or hell, even their YouTube channels, before making a movie supposedly about BDSM.  I’m not a rope top and I did that one-handed.

I’m on a horse.


The thing where they justify abuse by saying “it’s BDSM, of course it’s sick and wrong” is still a bigger problem though.

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this is unbelievably important and no one really realizes it

I used to say this a lot and people would look at me weird

But rly

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The original post is creepy and obsessive.

The comment is just gross and not funny.





y’all think having a period sucks but try having to fix your penis discreetly through your pocket 

having the insides of your organs shed and come out through your genitals does not compare to having displaced balls sorry

none of you can do it discreetly anyways

we see you

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